THE COMING OF WAR His was a laughing life with little-boy pride and every day a gift. His was a life of joy with toys and friends and cluttered boy's ambitions. People gave him games to see him smile. He had a stuffed brown bear he would not sleep without, then a little dog he loved to rough about. Years brought poker games and sports and girls, beer and cars and parties overnight. He reveled in them, singing with the sun. Now they give him bullets and a gun. I heard him laughing, happy when he'd won. I wonder if he laughs with his new gun. Lucille Murphy